Is Blogging As Glamorous As It Seems?! 10 Downsides of Being A Blogger


I often get people saying things along the lines of 'you're living the dream', 'why can't I be a blogger' or 'bloggers have it so easy' but, is this true? Don't get me wrong, I love what I do and it has a lot of perks but like any job, there's downsides to it as well and I think that's something people often forget. It isn't all free makeup & clothes, fancy events and press trips - there's a lot more that goes on behind the scenes that you don't see when scrolling through an Instagram feed full of perfectly posed photos.

I thought I'd share a few things you may not know about just so you can see the other side of blogging as I hate to see young girls comparing their lives to the lives of bloggers and thinking their life isn't as great in comparison! Trust me, there's been many occasions I've envied those with a 9-5 office job thinking their life must be much easier and less complicated than mine. Probably not true I know but what I'm trying to say is that we all experience similar feelings in any job and blogging is no different. 

1. Content, content, content. As a blogger, my mind is constantly on overdrive. Long gone are the days I can go out and completely relax - every cocktail/restaurant/pretty street is an opportunity for that perfect Instagram shot or snapchat update. Also, holidays no longer exist. Yes, bloggers go to nice places and have more holidays than the average person but those holidays are work in the eyes of a blogger as it's the perfect opportunity to get that content! Content is key and without it, bye bye blogging. For example, I'm heading off to Australia on Saturday to see my family who live there but I know a good portion of my time will also be spent getting blog content and Instagram photos so I won't be truly relaxed and carefree whilst I'm there. I don't mind doing it because I love creating content but I do sometimes think it'd be nice to totally switch off for a couple of weeks.

2. Annoying those around you. Point number one can begin to grate on the people around you which is something I'm always having to be mindful of. My family and the majority of friends don't even read blogs, let alone know what goes into maintaining one so I often feel the need to justify myself for the amount of time I spend on my phone or  updating social media when we're out and about. They often don't understand why snapchatting a cocktail is so important but as a blogger, you need to keep your followers constantly updated so it's a never ending battle between living in the moment and capturing the moment via social media. Seriously, if I even go a day without posting, I begin to worry people will forget about me - silly, I know.

3. It can make you feel like you aren't good enough. I think any blogger would be lying if they said they haven't compared themselves to other bloggers on more than one occasion. It's natural for everyone to compare themselves to others throughout their lives but I do think it's even more prelevent in the blogging industry as we're all essentially doing the same job and brands can only offer a small number of people work they may have available. This make it very easy for those awful 'her content is so much better than mine', 'why can't I look as good as her' and 'why are my photos not that good' thoughts to pop into our minds.

4. Every month is different. Whilst this can be nice as it keeps things exciting, when you're doing this as a job, it can also be a huge worry. What if I don't make enough money to pay my mortgage this month? What if people stop reading my blog and brands no longer want to work with me? What am I going to do with my life when I get older and people aren't interested in me anymore? These thoughts are always floating around my mind stressing me out and I often think having a secure 9-5 job would be less stressful as it's a guaranteed income at the end of each month.

5. Dealing with difficult brands. I recently had a run in with a brand who claimed I was rude for not posting an item of clothing within a week of receiving it, despite explaining I'd been busy and was planning to shoot the imagery that day. This isn't the first time this has happened either - I've been spoken to in a disrespectful manner on numerous occasions by small brands who don't value bloggers worth and instead see us as a quick way to get a few sales, forgetting that we pride ourselves on our content and the time that goes into creating it. I know I'm not alone in this either as it's happened to a few of my friends who are bloggers too. This can make it hard to work out which brands are clued up on how blogging works and which ones just see you as a quick option and generally have no respect for blogging as a career. Make sure you only work with those people taking what you do seriously!!

6. Always justifying our worth. Following on from the point above, another issue I always encounter is having to justify the fee I'm charging. I won't go into details about what I earn as that's private but I know I charge a reasonable figure for my following and the content I produce. However, some brands aren't willing to pay bloggers fairly and expect us to do a full review of their product or wear their clothing for next to nothing in return - it's just not going to happen. For example, shooting an outfit post for my blog requires a trip to London to shoot with a photographer who I have to pay myself. Why would I bother if I'm getting nothing in return? I think because blogging was once a hobby and not so much a career like it is now, certain companies will always challenge payment and almost try to make you feel bad for even asking in the first place and it can be so disheartening and make you feel like your aren't good enough. Another response I always get is 'sorry, we can't pay you that amount as we only paid (insert other bloggers name here) this much' and quite frankly, I've stopped responding to those kind of emails all together. Comparing one blogger to another is just not okay - we all have different lives and different circumstances. It's so important to always remember your worth and not let anyone try to put you down or make you feel bad about that. Let's face it, brands would have to pay traditional media a hell of a lot more than a blogger to get the same kind of exposure and reach.

7. You become really self critical. Going back to the point about comparing ourselves to other bloggers, another down side is that you start picking yourself apart. Maybe it's just me but I hope some of you can relate to me on this one as I've found myself to be a lot more conscious about my appearance since I started blogging. There's so many girls out there who look completely flawless on social media and it's difficult to try and keep up. I've even considered getting things like botox and lip fillers recently which is something I'd have never even thought about this time last year. I realise that I don't need these things but it's almost like the popular group at school - if you want to be part of it, you need to keep up. Sad but true.

8. People have a misconception of you. Last year, I went on a hen do with a group of girls I'd never met before (I only knew the bride) and was shocked to discover that most of them thought I'd be a stuck up b*tch before they met me. After talking to them about it, they said they thought that because I'm a blogger, I'd think I'm better than them. Luckily, they realised this couldn't be further from the truth and the holiday ended with them telling me how down to earth and lovely I am (yay!). However, it isn't nice having to prove people wrong just because you're a blogger - being a blogger doesn't make you instantly stuck up or in love with yourself. It's a job just like any other - albeit not a conventional job but still a job and one that requires hard work. I never set out with the intention of having a large following or blogging as a career, it started as a hobby and just happened!

9. It requires serious motivation. People often think blogging is super easy and we can just jump on our laptops, type a few sentences and be done with it but there's SO much more that goes into it and on days when you're maybe not feeling too great or are stressed with other things, it's so difficult to get your head into it and writers block strikes at the most inappropriate of times. You may have noticed I haven't been posting as regularly recently and that's because I've had so much going on in my personal life and have been so busy with other work related projects, social media updates and managing my emails that my actual blog has had to take a back seat. Even keeping on top of social media can be hard work - there's some days when you just don't want to have to get yourself ready to take photos but it has to be done as there's brands waiting and deadlines to be met.

10. It's not as effortless as it looks. Those street style photos you see us bloggers posting on Instagram? Like the one at the top of this post? Yep, not quite as effortless as it looks. Shooting outfit imagery is challenging to say the least and is something I have to plan weeks in advance. For me personally, it requires a 2 1/2 hour journey to London, carting a heavy suitcase on and off tubes to get to the location, posing on the streets of London in the freezing cold and getting changed in a pop up tent. Don't get me wrong, it can be quite amusing at times but there's definitely been occasions inside that tent when I've thought 'why on earth am I doing this' after the wind has almost blown the tent down and exposed my naked body to the residents of South Kensington - LOL! We also have to deal with the general public making comments such as 'it's a bit cold to be wearing that love' or men shouting crude comments from their car windows as they drive by - such a delight! So yes, a lot of effort goes in to getting those shots you see all over your Instagram feed! Next time you see one, give it little like whilst thinking about the pop up tent involved to get that finished result haha.

I hope you guys enjoyed reading this post and that it gives you a bit more insight into the life of a blogger and you can see that it isn't always as amazing as it might seem. Also, I just want to say this isn't meant to come across as me moaning either - I love my job and wouldn't change it for the world - you have to take the good with the bad, just like any job. However, I think it's important for impressionable young girls who dream of being bloggers to realise that it isn't always 100% glamorous and fun and it comes with its challenges too!

If you're a blogger, is there anything else you'd add to this list?! There's probably quite a few things I've forgotten to include!

7 comments

  1. You aren't moaning at all, this is all true and sometimes people need to know the truth. Love that you are being honest and telling all! xx

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  2. Agree with all of the above babe, plus lack of sleep, having to be in the mood to get your ass in front of a camera on those horrible fat days and struggling to get a moment for yourself. It always makes me laugh when non bloggers say it is easy and that we get things for free for doing nothing...hahaha. xxx

    www.lurchhoundloves.com

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  3. Couldn't agree more with this whole post! Especially 1, 2 & 9, it annoys me that we get judged for being on our phones a lot, but some people just really do not understand how much time and effort it requires to upkeep everything (blog, every social media, emails, brand collabs, taking photos, editing, writing etc.) A normal person can come home from a 9-5 job and switch off and relax, yet bloggers have it 24/7! xo

    Love, Catherine

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  4. I think not knowing how long you will be able to earn from blogging would be my main concern. It is not exactly a market with lots of older women still on the blog front. I am very happy that I have a day time job to pay my bills, even if that means that my life is spent in an office not centered around beauty.

    Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking

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  5. I can't believe those girls thought you bitch before having even met you. Out of most of the Bloggers / instagramers I follow you seem so lovely! Content over rules everything!! I'd love to just sit and enjoy a nice meal out rather than trying to get a good picture of it haha xx

    LPage Beauty

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  6. Wow, I can relate to some of these but not all. I can only imagine how hard it is on you. I would love to see "10 best things abut blogging" as well as this left me a bit shocked :D

    P.S. Love that shirt/dress thingy on that pic!

    x Charlotta
    http://charlottaeve.com

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